Let the ranting begin!
I hate allergies. I have a few allergies, mostly medicines. Aspirin, all the -cillin drugs, all the -mycin drugs, ambien, and a couple I don't remember off the top of my head. I also seem to have a gluten problem that probably led to my anemia. And the nightshade veggies (tomatoes, potatoes, eggplant) make my hands swell and joints ache.
A few years ago, L developed a severe shellfish allergy. Fine. That's easy to handle, though, after giving up our shrimp and crab legs. We have to avoid some restaurants and carry an epipen, but otherwise it isn't such a bad deal. She's also highly allergic to rabbits, so no bunnies for us either. Many people around here raise and sell them.
Then, J started having problems being around cats. Once at my in-laws his face starting swelling so bad we went to the ER. Just avoid cats they said. That's ok. We really just wanted dogs when we moved to our property anyway. Dogs for fun and for protection. So we got one. J then proceeded to have another severe reaction. Eight hours and much benadryl later, we gave away the dog. The kids were miserable and cried for a good bit. Charlie and I were pretty upset to give up our dreams of a nice little home in the country with a couple of dogs.
Well, at least we still have the bees and maybe some chickens later.
Last night Charlie and J went to the old house to bring the bees here to the new house. Charlie texted me to get some clay ready because they each got stung. No biggie, it's happened before. A paste of bentonite clay or my homemade calamine-like lotion works wonders. Except when it doesn't. J started swelling and hives started appearing everywhere. Another trip to the ER and another epipen. So the bees had to go. The kids are upset again because we like the honey. I like the beeswax for crafting. I feel bad because it was Charlie's thing more than mine, another potential way to make a few extra bucks is gone, and now I have to buy my own honey and beeswax. Grrrrr
I'm going to make all the kids pet, feed, and play with a friend's chickens before getting our own. Please, please, please don't let them be allergic to chickens!